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posted 8 minutes ago
Sorry to hear all this. I don’t know you obviously, but as another person just trying to make it in this difficult world I’d just want to say please don’t ever feel like there’s no point to life, there’s always a reason to keep living. Dramatic statement, I know and hopefully you’re nowhere near any sort of suicidal thoughts but always bear that in mind. Things can improve and I hope they do.
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It's kl I don't need to worry about taking my life.. Have I thought about, aye I'm not gonna lie iv seen a tub of paracetomal and thought to myself how easy it would be to just hub them all, iv walked over the bridge at the clyde and thought how easy it would be to just jump in but it's a fleeting thought and nothing more I would think at some point most of us have had a thought like that. Certainly after my mate taking his life and how fecking raging I am with him it's nothing anyone has to worry about with me
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I would genuinely advise you to speak to your GP mate those are more detailed than fleeting thoughts and you are only 1 step from planning and fulfilling those thoughts.
I have attempted suicide and know from experience how quickly it can escalate.
Give your GP a call or if that's not comfortable for you call an advice line like the Samaritans. It sounds drastic but you have nothing to lose by doing so.
As for the rest get on tinder and do some pumping
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Honestly it's kl man, I could never do that to my friends and family.
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That’s good.
What people in these situations probably don’t consider is that family/ friends love them (it’s often not said enough) so much even though the person thinks that nobody loves them.
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comment by 1 Father - 1 Love - 2 Reds (U13312)
posted 8 minutes ago
Sorry to hear all this. I don’t know you obviously, but as another person just trying to make it in this difficult world I’d just want to say please don’t ever feel like there’s no point to life, there’s always a reason to keep living. Dramatic statement, I know and hopefully you’re nowhere near any sort of suicidal thoughts but always bear that in mind. Things can improve and I hope they do.
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It's kl I don't need to worry about taking my life.. Have I thought about, aye I'm not gonna lie iv seen a tub of paracetomal and thought to myself how easy it would be to just hub them all, iv walked over the bridge at the clyde and thought how easy it would be to just jump in but it's a fleeting thought and nothing more I would think at some point most of us have had a thought like that. Certainly after my mate taking his life and how fecking raging I am with him it's nothing anyone has to worry about with me
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I would genuinely advise you to speak to your GP mate those are more detailed than fleeting thoughts and you are only 1 step from planning and fulfilling those thoughts.
I have attempted suicide and know from experience how quickly it can escalate.
Give your GP a call or if that's not comfortable for you call an advice line like the Samaritans. It sounds drastic but you have nothing to lose by doing so.
As for the rest get on tinder and do some pumping
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Honestly it's kl man, I could never do that to my friends and family.
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That’s good.
What people in these situations probably don’t consider is that family/ friends love them (it’s often not said enough) so much even though the person thinks that nobody loves them.
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indeed in my situation i honestly believed it was better for my friends and family and i was doing it for them.
still do and possibly always will to some extent.
sounds like you don't have that issue though but help is always there if so.
Zico’s right about the getting busy stuff. Don’t stay indoors get out there. Also a quick win - dump Rangers and become a Tim👍👍
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posted 3 hours, 14 minutes ago
comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 11 seconds ago
why u break up?
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she just didnt think the "spark" was there anymore after 11 year, she is going through a $hit time annol to be fair, she was close to my pal annol.
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Sorry to hear that mate, I've been with my Mrs for 21 years, cant even imagine having the rug pulled away like that.
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posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 11 seconds ago
why u break up?
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she just didnt think the "spark" was there anymore after 11 year, she is going through a $hit time annol to be fair, she was close to my pal annol.
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doesnt wanna lose me though cos im her "best pal" an all that
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Be positive. Think of all the people that DO love you and would be devastated if you weren't around.
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posted 3 minutes ago
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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Climbing all of the (282) mountains of Scotland over 3000ft high
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posted 3 minutes ago
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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Hill walks, any hill over 900m or 3000 ft is a munro
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
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posted 2 minutes ago
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
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I almost gave genuine, useful advice
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
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posted 2 minutes ago
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
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I almost gave genuine, useful advice
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One of your better suggestions
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
And to the others who don't normally frequent the Scottish boards. You might not realise how much it helps
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 11 seconds ago
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
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. . . and 'girl'
comment by Gingernuts (U2992)
posted 12 seconds ago
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
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In terms of career not much been a pension administrator for years and years and I think I want out. Need a new line of work
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posted 1 minute ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 11 seconds ago
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
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. . . and 'girl'
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And girl...... 😂
Asl....?
Too soon?!! 😂
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posted 3 seconds ago
comment by Gingernuts (U2992)
posted 12 seconds ago
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
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In terms of career not much been a pension administrator for years and years and I think I want out. Need a new line of work
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Then break down your actual skills as opposed to what you do for a living. Have someone else look at it from a different perspective.
comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 3 hours, 23 minutes ago
doesnt wanna lose me though cos im her "best pal" an all that
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tough titties.
Best for you to cease contact imo.
Get to the gym, take up a new hobbie and keep active.
get on plenty of fish and do a power of pumpin.
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This ^^^ been there done that, although I couldn't see if at the time my ex leaving was the best thing that could have happened to me. I have since married then most amazing lady who has my back no Matt what as opposed to the emotional vampire who I thought I had loved before. Always remember the simple phrase "this to shall pass. You will come out the other end bud, just don't get too down when we smash your lot on Sunday ☘
old enough, female, Sheffield.
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posted 43 seconds ago
comment by super phoenix rangers - I drank a lava lamp (U14864)
posted 7 minutes ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 3 minutes ago
comment by 1 Father - 1 Love - 2 Reds (U13312)
posted 8 minutes ago
Sorry to hear all this. I don’t know you obviously, but as another person just trying to make it in this difficult world I’d just want to say please don’t ever feel like there’s no point to life, there’s always a reason to keep living. Dramatic statement, I know and hopefully you’re nowhere near any sort of suicidal thoughts but always bear that in mind. Things can improve and I hope they do.
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It's kl I don't need to worry about taking my life.. Have I thought about, aye I'm not gonna lie iv seen a tub of paracetomal and thought to myself how easy it would be to just hub them all, iv walked over the bridge at the clyde and thought how easy it would be to just jump in but it's a fleeting thought and nothing more I would think at some point most of us have had a thought like that. Certainly after my mate taking his life and how fecking raging I am with him it's nothing anyone has to worry about with me
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I would genuinely advise you to speak to your GP mate those are more detailed than fleeting thoughts and you are only 1 step from planning and fulfilling those thoughts.
I have attempted suicide and know from experience how quickly it can escalate.
Give your GP a call or if that's not comfortable for you call an advice line like the Samaritans. It sounds drastic but you have nothing to lose by doing so.
As for the rest get on tinder and do some pumping
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Honestly it's kl man, I could never do that to my friends and family.
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That’s good.
What people in these situations probably don’t consider is that family/ friends love them (it’s often not said enough) so much even though the person thinks that nobody loves them.
posted on 27/8/19
Have a vvank outside
posted on 27/8/19
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posted 49 minutes ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 43 seconds ago
comment by super phoenix rangers - I drank a lava lamp (U14864)
posted 7 minutes ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 3 minutes ago
comment by 1 Father - 1 Love - 2 Reds (U13312)
posted 8 minutes ago
Sorry to hear all this. I don’t know you obviously, but as another person just trying to make it in this difficult world I’d just want to say please don’t ever feel like there’s no point to life, there’s always a reason to keep living. Dramatic statement, I know and hopefully you’re nowhere near any sort of suicidal thoughts but always bear that in mind. Things can improve and I hope they do.
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It's kl I don't need to worry about taking my life.. Have I thought about, aye I'm not gonna lie iv seen a tub of paracetomal and thought to myself how easy it would be to just hub them all, iv walked over the bridge at the clyde and thought how easy it would be to just jump in but it's a fleeting thought and nothing more I would think at some point most of us have had a thought like that. Certainly after my mate taking his life and how fecking raging I am with him it's nothing anyone has to worry about with me
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I would genuinely advise you to speak to your GP mate those are more detailed than fleeting thoughts and you are only 1 step from planning and fulfilling those thoughts.
I have attempted suicide and know from experience how quickly it can escalate.
Give your GP a call or if that's not comfortable for you call an advice line like the Samaritans. It sounds drastic but you have nothing to lose by doing so.
As for the rest get on tinder and do some pumping
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Honestly it's kl man, I could never do that to my friends and family.
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That’s good.
What people in these situations probably don’t consider is that family/ friends love them (it’s often not said enough) so much even though the person thinks that nobody loves them.
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indeed in my situation i honestly believed it was better for my friends and family and i was doing it for them.
still do and possibly always will to some extent.
sounds like you don't have that issue though but help is always there if so.
posted on 27/8/19
Zico’s right about the getting busy stuff. Don’t stay indoors get out there. Also a quick win - dump Rangers and become a Tim👍👍
posted on 27/8/19
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comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 3 hours, 14 minutes ago
comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 11 seconds ago
why u break up?
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she just didnt think the "spark" was there anymore after 11 year, she is going through a $hit time annol to be fair, she was close to my pal annol.
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Sorry to hear that mate, I've been with my Mrs for 21 years, cant even imagine having the rug pulled away like that.
posted on 27/8/19
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 3 hours, 24 minutes ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 0 seconds ago
comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 11 seconds ago
why u break up?
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she just didnt think the "spark" was there anymore after 11 year, she is going through a $hit time annol to be fair, she was close to my pal annol.
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doesnt wanna lose me though cos im her "best pal" an all that
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Be positive. Think of all the people that DO love you and would be devastated if you weren't around.
posted on 27/8/19
comment by The Owl 🦉 & hELLo Kitty (U1750)
posted 3 minutes ago
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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Climbing all of the (282) mountains of Scotland over 3000ft high
posted on 27/8/19
comment by The Owl 🦉 & hELLo Kitty (U1750)
posted 3 minutes ago
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 2 hours, 46 minutes ago
Start munro bagging. Have you done many?
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What's this then?
I am genuinely interested, never heard of it and cba to google it. I thank you mi dear.
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Hill walks, any hill over 900m or 3000 ft is a munro
posted on 27/8/19
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
posted on 27/8/19
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posted on 27/8/19
comment by The Owl 🦉 & hELLo Kitty (U1750)
posted 2 minutes ago
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
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I almost gave genuine, useful advice
posted on 27/8/19
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
posted on 27/8/19
comment by Kane Hemmings (U1734)
posted 18 seconds ago
comment by The Owl 🦉 & hELLo Kitty (U1750)
posted 2 minutes ago
Aha, very interesting. They sound very high.
Have to admit, I saw Kane Hemmings (Barrold) comment and thought it must be something salacious
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I almost gave genuine, useful advice
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One of your better suggestions
posted on 27/8/19
Silver too!!
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posted on 27/8/19
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
posted on 27/8/19
And to the others who don't normally frequent the Scottish boards. You might not realise how much it helps
posted on 27/8/19
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 11 seconds ago
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
----------------------------------------------------------------------
. . . and 'girl'
posted on 27/8/19
comment by Gingernuts (U2992)
posted 12 seconds ago
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
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In terms of career not much been a pension administrator for years and years and I think I want out. Need a new line of work
posted on 27/8/19
comment by The Owl 🦉 & hELLo Kitty (U1750)
posted 1 minute ago
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 11 seconds ago
Just also wanna say although this anonymous it's when u get support like this you get faith back in life. Not a single person on here has ever met or known me but support and in a way care does actually mean a lot to me.
I don't know any of u guys and tbh I could only bring this stuff too folk I don't know.
Subs, sjb,, spr, jfk hell even our resident name changing dundonion I just wanna say thank boys and boys.
Really thanks
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. . . and 'girl'
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And girl...... 😂
Asl....?
Too soon?!! 😂
posted on 27/8/19
comment by orange sherbet (U21919)
posted 3 seconds ago
comment by Gingernuts (U2992)
posted 12 seconds ago
First thing. Break off all contact with her, block her number, social media contacts and e mails etc and delete every method you have of contacting her permanently. It’ll be tough but you have to take back control right enough. Otherwise you’ll end up advising her on whether she should shaag her new bloke on first date or not. Don’t be that guy.
Next. Hobby. Gym it like fwck. Every day if you can and when you feel down get back in the gym again.
Get into some social site as suggested above. If nothing else it’ll be a laugh and who knows. Pay attention to your appearance. Look good and you’ll feel good. Look like a tramp and expect people to look at you like one.
Get your cv together. What do you do anyway? Get someone professional to give it the once over and then get in touch with an agency or even competitors of your last company.
And remember the sun always rises the next day.
----------------------------------------------------------------------
In terms of career not much been a pension administrator for years and years and I think I want out. Need a new line of work
----------------------------------------------------------------------
Then break down your actual skills as opposed to what you do for a living. Have someone else look at it from a different perspective.
posted on 27/8/19
comment by JFK - The Rebel Treble (U8919)
posted 3 hours, 23 minutes ago
doesnt wanna lose me though cos im her "best pal" an all that
=======
tough titties.
Best for you to cease contact imo.
Get to the gym, take up a new hobbie and keep active.
get on plenty of fish and do a power of pumpin.
----------------------------------------------------------------------
This ^^^ been there done that, although I couldn't see if at the time my ex leaving was the best thing that could have happened to me. I have since married then most amazing lady who has my back no Matt what as opposed to the emotional vampire who I thought I had loved before. Always remember the simple phrase "this to shall pass. You will come out the other end bud, just don't get too down when we smash your lot on Sunday ☘
posted on 27/8/19
old enough, female, Sheffield.
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