I think childless people have less tolerance for kids (I’m not talking disabilities as I think that’s an entirely different thing)
I have zero tolerance for children who misbehave in public and the parents do nothing
I also wouldn’t say anything either as it’s not my business how others raise their kids
I can only judge it on how I was bought up and the saying ‘children should be seen and not heard’ was used regularly
If I played up it only took a sharp look from my mother and I’d reign it in
It’s all about respect
Kids today have none and it winds me up ….if I walk down the street now and a gang of kids are coming towards me I find myself making way for them ! When I was a kid it was the adult who had right of way
Not sure if it’s the kids getting less respectful or I’m getting miserable and older but either way it’s noticeable
Good points Blackpole and good to see you back.
These days most youngsters think they're gangsters and carry knives... it wouldn't happen if they were disciplined properly as kids. Even if it means battering it out of them.
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 1 minute ago
Good points Blackpole and good to see you back.
These days most youngsters think they're gangsters and carry knives... it wouldn't happen if they were disciplined properly as kids. Even if it means battering it out of them.
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The universal scientific and medical concensus is that hitting children leads to patterns of behavioural issues in later life. Such as delinquency and spousal assault.
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/corporal-punishment-and-health
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3447048/
Nah I disagree Pearce. Some of them need it beaten out of them
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 3 minutes ago
Nah I disagree Pearce. Some of them need it beaten out of them
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I think the World Health Organisation, the UN, and UNICEF might just have a greater handle on this than us. So would be minded to accept their findings.
"A large body of research shows links between corporal punishment and a wide range of negative outcomes, both immediate and long-term."
"adult perpetration of violent, antisocial and criminal behaviour."
"increased acceptance and use of other forms of violence."
The same WHO who said Covid-19 hadn't transmitted to humans when it had been doing for weeks??
Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not. The reason we have knife crime now is because parents have gone soft.
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 4 minutes ago
The same WHO who said Covid-19 hadn't transmitted to humans when it had been doing for weeks??
Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not. The reason we have knife crime now is because parents have gone soft.
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ffs!
Culer now advocating child abuse as parenting tool
No abuse would be constantly beating them or doing it for no reason.
"Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not."
Did you even read what you'd written?
You’re deliberately trying to twist my words. Cya.
During my boys early badly behaved days I sometimes had to take things off him (that he was about to launch through my neighbours greenhouse)
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posted on 14/6/22
I think childless people have less tolerance for kids (I’m not talking disabilities as I think that’s an entirely different thing)
I have zero tolerance for children who misbehave in public and the parents do nothing
I also wouldn’t say anything either as it’s not my business how others raise their kids
I can only judge it on how I was bought up and the saying ‘children should be seen and not heard’ was used regularly
If I played up it only took a sharp look from my mother and I’d reign it in
It’s all about respect
Kids today have none and it winds me up ….if I walk down the street now and a gang of kids are coming towards me I find myself making way for them ! When I was a kid it was the adult who had right of way
Not sure if it’s the kids getting less respectful or I’m getting miserable and older but either way it’s noticeable
posted on 14/6/22
Good points Blackpole and good to see you back.
These days most youngsters think they're gangsters and carry knives... it wouldn't happen if they were disciplined properly as kids. Even if it means battering it out of them.
posted on 14/6/22
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 1 minute ago
Good points Blackpole and good to see you back.
These days most youngsters think they're gangsters and carry knives... it wouldn't happen if they were disciplined properly as kids. Even if it means battering it out of them.
----------------------------------------------------------------------
The universal scientific and medical concensus is that hitting children leads to patterns of behavioural issues in later life. Such as delinquency and spousal assault.
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/corporal-punishment-and-health
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3447048/
posted on 14/6/22
Nah I disagree Pearce. Some of them need it beaten out of them
posted on 14/6/22
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 3 minutes ago
Nah I disagree Pearce. Some of them need it beaten out of them
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I think the World Health Organisation, the UN, and UNICEF might just have a greater handle on this than us. So would be minded to accept their findings.
"A large body of research shows links between corporal punishment and a wide range of negative outcomes, both immediate and long-term."
"adult perpetration of violent, antisocial and criminal behaviour."
"increased acceptance and use of other forms of violence."
posted on 14/6/22
The same WHO who said Covid-19 hadn't transmitted to humans when it had been doing for weeks??
Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not. The reason we have knife crime now is because parents have gone soft.
posted on 14/6/22
comment by Culèr: Back Soon (U9489)
posted 4 minutes ago
The same WHO who said Covid-19 hadn't transmitted to humans when it had been doing for weeks??
Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not. The reason we have knife crime now is because parents have gone soft.
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ffs!
Culer now advocating child abuse as parenting tool
posted on 14/6/22
No abuse would be constantly beating them or doing it for no reason.
posted on 14/6/22
"Beating up kids, as a parental figure, teaches them about respect and authority. Disabled or not."
Did you even read what you'd written?
posted on 14/6/22
You’re deliberately trying to twist my words. Cya.
posted on 20/6/22
During my boys early badly behaved days I sometimes had to take things off him (that he was about to launch through my neighbours greenhouse)
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