RIP Annita
Condolences to you and your loved ones, Sgt.
It may be the last thing on your mind right now, but make sure you look after yourself.
Sympathy and sincere condolences, Wilko. A very sad and difficult time. <dove>
Ahh Wilko I'm so sorry to hear this.
Losing a partner is more than most can even think about. Know that I am thinking about you at this horrible time and the board is here for you when you need. You aren’t alone.
Sending the biggest of hugs to you my love x
Very sorry to read of your loss.
The depth of one’s grief matches the intensity of the love one had for the loved one lost. This is both a blessing and a hardship.
As someone else wrote the first 12 months are a very difficult time and the focus is naturally on the loss and day to day missing of the person. Gradually the cherished memories begin to take over whilst the sadness remains but begins to dull.
The timing is unique for everyone but spending time with others helps one to cope.
I wish you all the best and assure you that you will come through it by living on with those wonderful memories of the good times you spent together.
Sincere condolences Wilko
That's sheite so it is mate, losing anyone who matters is a tough thing, losing yer missus is a boot in the baws, sorry for your pain.
Bless Wilko …… I really can't imagine what you're going through right now.
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family …..
I'm so so sad for you. I lost my missus , suddenly, just over a year ago .
My heart sank reading this and there's nothing I can say except don't be alone at this time . Family, friend or whoever, just please don't be alone. This will help for now .
Be strong my friend
So sorry for your loss.
Stay strong, time makes it easier. I’m lucky enough to not have gone through this yet, but watched friends & family grieve over their significant other and all I can is that for them, each day it gets easier to live with.
Keep tuning into the board and keep yourself busy my friend.
Sgt Wilko 92, at this time of pain, i have no words that may console you, but my heart is with you, for now try to remember the good times, i know it means nothing right now
Only seeing this now
My sincere condolences on your loss
I am very sad to hear your news, Wilko, terribly painful for you and your family. As much as you are hurting, it is because you have loved someone so deeply. Annita completed your life and you completed hers. It is small comfort now, but I hope, in the weeks and months ahead, you will find the courage and strength she gave you. I wish you a long life, Sgt Wilko, keep posting, our LUFC family is with you.
Condolences to you Sgt Wilko.
The only advice I can give you is to be true to yourself in making the most of each day. Everyone has their own way, whether it’s anger, sadness, feeling lost.
You will find your own way in your own time. You can call the Samaritans for someone to talk to. They don’t know you, you can really let loose. It helps.
You will always have that feeling that you should have done just one more thing, that will be the case no matter how much you did.
Also you enjoyed life with her you enjoyed making the sacrifices you did for her, and you’ll miss that. Those sacrifices made you who you are today, I’m sure that’s a better man.
This is what life has given you, the ability to care and make sacrifices, I’m sure you’ll make use of those.
How awful to hear this Wilko. I am so sorry to hear you have lost your beloved wife.
Everyone ahead of me has just about summed it all up. Time is a healer but this is going to take quite a while. You have friends who will support you and, as was previously mentioned, keep yourself occupied.
Regardless of who we follow or support, we are all in it together when such as this happens and we all extend our sincere condolences to you.
Wilko, so sorry to read about your loss!..
Most of the Leeds Board and some outsiders know that I lost my wife a while back, I did what you did and wrote an Article about it, I was thinking at the time is this the right thing to do, but like you I found people coming from all corners replying with things like what I've just read here!..
Its amazing how people come together and give a little support when needed, it might not feel right at the time but I was glad I did it!..
Photos of my wife on my wall, tell her most days that I miss her, tell her everyday that I love her!..
Look after yourself mate, this is a time when Family and Friends come together and give a little strength to help pull through!..
Condolences to you, your Family and friends!.
These comments are beautiful to read. No doubt this season, we shall be at each others throats, but in reality, lifebis about loving each other and ensuring our neighbour is OK.
Wonderful to see.
Sgt - I've thought long and hard about what to say that could help but lacking in true erudition, I decided to leave it to someone who could express true eloquence on your loss.
From Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare
Good Night
Good night.
Parting is such sweet sorrow, that I shall say good night, till it be morrow.
( You shall be reunited one day and your soul mate is always there in spirit with you)
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posted on 3/9/20
RIP Annita
Condolences to you and your loved ones, Sgt.
It may be the last thing on your mind right now, but make sure you look after yourself.
posted on 3/9/20
Sympathy and sincere condolences, Wilko. A very sad and difficult time. <dove>
posted on 3/9/20
Ahh Wilko I'm so sorry to hear this.
Losing a partner is more than most can even think about. Know that I am thinking about you at this horrible time and the board is here for you when you need. You aren’t alone.
Sending the biggest of hugs to you my love x
posted on 3/9/20
Very sorry to read of your loss.
The depth of one’s grief matches the intensity of the love one had for the loved one lost. This is both a blessing and a hardship.
As someone else wrote the first 12 months are a very difficult time and the focus is naturally on the loss and day to day missing of the person. Gradually the cherished memories begin to take over whilst the sadness remains but begins to dull.
The timing is unique for everyone but spending time with others helps one to cope.
I wish you all the best and assure you that you will come through it by living on with those wonderful memories of the good times you spent together.
posted on 3/9/20
Sincere condolences Wilko
posted on 3/9/20
That's sheite so it is mate, losing anyone who matters is a tough thing, losing yer missus is a boot in the baws, sorry for your pain.
posted on 3/9/20
Bless Wilko …… I really can't imagine what you're going through right now.
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family …..
posted on 3/9/20
So sorry for your loss
posted on 3/9/20
I'm so so sad for you. I lost my missus , suddenly, just over a year ago .
My heart sank reading this and there's nothing I can say except don't be alone at this time . Family, friend or whoever, just please don't be alone. This will help for now .
Be strong my friend
posted on 3/9/20
So sorry for your loss.
Stay strong, time makes it easier. I’m lucky enough to not have gone through this yet, but watched friends & family grieve over their significant other and all I can is that for them, each day it gets easier to live with.
Keep tuning into the board and keep yourself busy my friend.
posted on 3/9/20
Sgt Wilko 92, at this time of pain, i have no words that may console you, but my heart is with you, for now try to remember the good times, i know it means nothing right now
posted on 3/9/20
Only seeing this now
My sincere condolences on your loss
posted on 3/9/20
I am very sad to hear your news, Wilko, terribly painful for you and your family. As much as you are hurting, it is because you have loved someone so deeply. Annita completed your life and you completed hers. It is small comfort now, but I hope, in the weeks and months ahead, you will find the courage and strength she gave you. I wish you a long life, Sgt Wilko, keep posting, our LUFC family is with you.
posted on 3/9/20
Condolences to you Sgt Wilko.
The only advice I can give you is to be true to yourself in making the most of each day. Everyone has their own way, whether it’s anger, sadness, feeling lost.
You will find your own way in your own time. You can call the Samaritans for someone to talk to. They don’t know you, you can really let loose. It helps.
You will always have that feeling that you should have done just one more thing, that will be the case no matter how much you did.
Also you enjoyed life with her you enjoyed making the sacrifices you did for her, and you’ll miss that. Those sacrifices made you who you are today, I’m sure that’s a better man.
This is what life has given you, the ability to care and make sacrifices, I’m sure you’ll make use of those.
posted on 3/9/20
How awful to hear this Wilko. I am so sorry to hear you have lost your beloved wife.
Everyone ahead of me has just about summed it all up. Time is a healer but this is going to take quite a while. You have friends who will support you and, as was previously mentioned, keep yourself occupied.
Regardless of who we follow or support, we are all in it together when such as this happens and we all extend our sincere condolences to you.
posted on 4/9/20
Wilko, so sorry to read about your loss!..
Most of the Leeds Board and some outsiders know that I lost my wife a while back, I did what you did and wrote an Article about it, I was thinking at the time is this the right thing to do, but like you I found people coming from all corners replying with things like what I've just read here!..
Its amazing how people come together and give a little support when needed, it might not feel right at the time but I was glad I did it!..
Photos of my wife on my wall, tell her most days that I miss her, tell her everyday that I love her!..
Look after yourself mate, this is a time when Family and Friends come together and give a little strength to help pull through!..
Condolences to you, your Family and friends!.
posted on 4/9/20
These comments are beautiful to read. No doubt this season, we shall be at each others throats, but in reality, lifebis about loving each other and ensuring our neighbour is OK.
Wonderful to see.
posted on 5/9/20
Sgt - I've thought long and hard about what to say that could help but lacking in true erudition, I decided to leave it to someone who could express true eloquence on your loss.
From Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare
Good Night
Good night.
Parting is such sweet sorrow, that I shall say good night, till it be morrow.
( You shall be reunited one day and your soul mate is always there in spirit with you)
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