I noticed you’ve said no more on the 3some inc a midget. How does that come about without the exchange of cash?

Your also digging out Bales about a comment about someone who looked like a 12 year old, I won’t get into that as it did seem off but he it was a one off comment, but isn’t shaaaging a midget a bit off? Having seeex with someone built like a child?

I can’t be bothered to trawl through your mad man rambling but I’m near certain whilst in Kenya you’ve said girls have come back with you, you’ve slept with them, they’ve asked for payment and you refused and told them where to go. Did I imagine that?

Tbh even if the stuff J says is true (I would imagine he's a questionable narrator), even then he comes across sus

I don’t really have as much of an issue with it all as bales as I don’t tend to rest 90% of Js posts unless someone responds. However the continual crying after people calling him out for OTT stuff is pretty ridic

comment by TBag. (U11806)
posted 5 minutes ago
Tbh even if the stuff J says is true (I would imagine he's a questionable narrator), even then he comes across sus
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Explain that though. What is the suss stuff.

comment by MYLO - SEE YOU NEXT TUESDAY (U20111)
posted 10 minutes ago
I noticed you’ve said no more on the 3some inc a midget. How does that come about without the exchange of cash?

Your also digging out Bales about a comment about someone who looked like a 12 year old, I won’t get into that as it did seem off but he it was a one off comment, but isn’t shaaaging a midget a bit off? Having seeex with someone built like a child?

I can’t be bothered to trawl through your mad man rambling but I’m near certain whilst in Kenya you’ve said girls have come back with you, you’ve slept with them, they’ve asked for payment and you refused and told them where to go. Did I imagine that?
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You might not have imagined it, but that never happened and I never said it happened.

Regarding the "midget", she was not "built like a child" Midget was an exaggeration, although her torso was probably marginally outside of normal perameters. I didn't notice this until she was in bed, and in fact she looked very hot in the club, and I'm confident that most guys who were not averse to black women would have reached the same conclusion.

I had a 3 some snogging session with her and another girl, and it did not involve an exchange of cash.

Bales' comment wasn't a one off, not that it's conclusive of anything but he's made 2 comments of that nature. I'm quite confident that nothing I've said or done (certainly in the last few years) has come anywhere near to the creepyness of either of Bales' comments.

Was it a short moovie?

comment by #4zA - 🇮🇹🇺🇦 no al calcio moderno (U22472)
posted 24 seconds ago
Was it a short moovie?
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I think that the issue here is simple a case of one person saying something and then everyone else thinking it in a kind of domino effect. I'm very confident that my behaviour in Kenya was not inappropriate in the way that's been alluded to, and I'm very confident that I don't harass women or whatever the words are that have been used, and in fact that I am very respectful to women and to people I meet in general. It's possible though that there's just some gap in perception between people who live in western countries and people who spend a lot of time overseas, and maybe that is something that I can take on board and take into account in what I write, whether on here or in general. Maybe people just have preconceived ideas about certain parts of the world, which don't reflect reality but need to be considered when communicating with them to prevent this kind of misunderstanding, because I do take the point that several people have come to similar conclusions, even though I know that those conclusions are invalid. Sorry for the lack of paragraphs which is due to spam filter.

I definitely avoid reading most of the stuff J posts in here because otherwise I'd be reading 24/7

The stuff I do read is always hilariously bizarre

comment by #4zA - 🇮🇹🇺🇦 no al calcio moderno (U22472)
posted 2 minutes ago
Was it a short moovie?
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it's good actually. french one from the 60s. i came back to make a short point which actually came within the post i've just made (but obviously i got sidetracked into responding to other comments).

comment by Dim not sing (U22695)
posted 1 minute ago
comment by #4zA - 🇮🇹🇺🇦 no al calcio moderno (U22472)
posted 2 minutes ago
Was it a short moovie?
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it's good actually. french one from the 60s. i came back to make a short point which actually came within the post i've just made (but obviously i got sidetracked into responding to other comments).
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U speak French?

im not totally clean, but i have never felt like ive exploited a woman, and i never would exploit a woman. and i don't harass or assault women or whatever. And sometimes they actually like me.

i respect barriers, i respect a woman's right to decide, and i have walked away and pulled back from situations most would not have done, and which i'm sure in a couple of cases I was not expected to have done.

so i don't like the comments which suggest the contrary. because they are not true.

i have stood up for several women who were in difficult situations, and there are others i wish i could also have stood up for.

i am a gentleman towards women. im polite, respectful, considerate and kind.

comment by Dim not sing (U22695)
posted 12 minutes ago
I think that the issue here is simple a case of one person saying something and then everyone else thinking it in a kind of domino effect. I'm very confident that my behaviour in Kenya was not inappropriate in the way that's been alluded to, and I'm very confident that I don't harass women or whatever the words are that have been used, and in fact that I am very respectful to women and to people I meet in general. It's possible though that there's just some gap in perception between people who live in western countries and people who spend a lot of time overseas, and maybe that is something that I can take on board and take into account in what I write, whether on here or in general. Maybe people just have preconceived ideas about certain parts of the world, which don't reflect reality but need to be considered when communicating with them to prevent this kind of misunderstanding, because I do take the point that several people have come to similar conclusions, even though I know that those conclusions are invalid. Sorry for the lack of paragraphs which is due to spam filter.
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I'd say it has more to do with the things you post than any sort of domino effect

comment by Christopher (U20930)
posted 25 seconds ago
comment by Dim not sing (U22695)
posted 12 minutes ago
I think that the issue here is simple a case of one person saying something and then everyone else thinking it in a kind of domino effect. I'm very confident that my behaviour in Kenya was not inappropriate in the way that's been alluded to, and I'm very confident that I don't harass women or whatever the words are that have been used, and in fact that I am very respectful to women and to people I meet in general. It's possible though that there's just some gap in perception between people who live in western countries and people who spend a lot of time overseas, and maybe that is something that I can take on board and take into account in what I write, whether on here or in general. Maybe people just have preconceived ideas about certain parts of the world, which don't reflect reality but need to be considered when communicating with them to prevent this kind of misunderstanding, because I do take the point that several people have come to similar conclusions, even though I know that those conclusions are invalid. Sorry for the lack of paragraphs which is due to spam filter.
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I'd say it has more to do with the things you post than any sort of domino effect
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ok, so for the severalth time, what are these things ?

the only person who has attempted to explain this so far has been Mylo, who got everything wrong.

oh, and Bales who also got everything wrong.

Why is it all of your sexual misadventures happen in places with greater levels of poverty? That’s predatory behaviour. It’s odd how none of this behaviour takes place in the UK. Just Africa, SE Asia and Eastern Europe.

- I dated a girl who walked round in a loin cloth carrying a spear (wrong)
- I molested a woman's leg (wrong)
- I paid for a 3some (wrong)
- I had sxe with a woman who was built like a child (wrong)

what else ?

comment by MYLO - SEE YOU NEXT TUESDAY (U20111)
posted 14 seconds ago
Why is it all of your sexual misadventures happen in places with greater levels of poverty? That’s predatory behaviour. It’s odd how none of this behaviour takes place in the UK. Just Africa, SE Asia and Eastern Europe.
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I've explained why I was in eastern africa.

Everyone knew why I was in eastern Arica, and it was not to exploit women.

I've been to 80 countries on every continent outside the artics.

Well, if the majority of people who read ur posts have sumilar opinion on em, maybe it is sumthing related too whut u rite n not merely mass delusion?

just from what I've seen which is apparently a pretty small slice of things

Sliding money under a woman's door to make up for the fact that you're breaking up with her

An email offering to pay a woman (10,000 shillings was it?) to explain why she wasn't interested in you

Sharing photos of women in their 20s that you've apparently had s3x with

Constant stories about having s3x with women and either them becoming obsessed with you and you walking away or them leaving you for no reason

Trips to third world countries that apparently lead you to having s3x with a lot of the locals

Now I'm sure it's entirely possible that you're entirely respectful to women despite all of this. But when I see a 40 something year old posting all of this stuff I just would assume that they act pretty inappropriately towards women. It's nothing personal, just a reality of the posts themselves

Before I went to Kenya (where I saved a woman's life by the way while we're on the subject of exploiting women), I had 3 weeks in Tanzania. A much poorer country than Kenya.

This was the only woman I had any meaningful contact with in those 3 weeks:

https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=139015381910778&set=a.110234578122192


She was the daughter of a wealthy restauranter, and I was supposed to be going out with her for the day but it never happened because I was due to leave 2 days before her day off so I just carried on.

Why wasn't I preying on vulnerable women in Tanzania ?

comment by Christopher (U20930)
posted 2 minutes ago

OK AT LEAST WE'VE GOT SOMETHING TO WORK ON

Sliding money under a woman's door to make up for the fact that you're breaking up with her

HOW IS THAT EXPLOITING A WOMAN OR BEHAVING INAPPROPRIATELY ? SHE DIDN'T EVEN KNOW SHE HAD THE MONEY UNTIL AFTER I'D LEFT TOWN, AND TOLD ME SHE WAS GRATEFUL FOR THE MONEY.

An email offering to pay a woman (10,000 shillings was it?) to explain why she wasn't interested in you

I DIDN'T SEND THE EMAIL. I DRAFTED IT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT BECAUSE I WANTED TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAD HAPPENED (WHICH WAS PERPLEXING), BUT FROM THE MOMENT I WOKE IN THE MORNING I HAD NO INTENTION OF SENDING IT.


Sharing photos of women in their 20s that you've apparently had s3x with

OK, I'LL GIVE YOU THAT ONE, BUT IT'S NOT THAT UNUSUAL TO DO THAT ON THE INTERNET EVEN IF IT IS IN THIS KIND OF FORUM TBF, BUT IT DOESN'T JUSTIFY MANY OF THE KINDS OF COMMENTS MADE ABOUT ME.

Constant stories about having s3x with women and either them becoming obsessed with you and you walking away or them leaving you for no reason

AGAIN, I CAN'T THINK OF ANY OF THE COMMENTS/ALLEGATIONS THAT HAVE BEEN MADE THAT THIS WOULD JUSTIFY


Trips to third world countries that apparently lead you to having s3x with a lot of the locals

I'VE COVERED MY REASONS FOR GOING TO KENYA WHICH POSTERS WERE AWARE OF BEFORE MY TRIP AND DURING IT. AS DISCUSSED, AND AS EXPLAINED IN THE EXACT COMMENT THA T YOU ORIGINALLY REPLIED TO, HAVING SXE WITH LOCAL WOMEN DOES NOT JUSTIFY ANY OF THE COMMENTS THAT HAVE BEEN MADE AGAINST ME, WHATEVER WESTERN PERCEPTIONS/PREJUDICES MIGHT BE.

comment by #4zA - 🇮🇹🇺🇦 no al calcio moderno (U22472)
posted 9 minutes ago
Well, if the majority of people who read ur posts have sumilar opinion on em, maybe it is sumthing related too whut u rite n not merely mass delusion?
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Yes but we're just going round in circles.

The majority of you, initiated by your own comment on the matter, thought that I had molested the woman whose leg my hand was on. That is not a case of perception v perception. It's a case of you misunderstanding that situation and construing it in the dimmest way that it could be construed. There was nothing wrong whatsoever in my conduct on that occasion, yet 3 of you effectively accused me of sxueal assault.

This is a typical example and is the answer to your question.

Like I said, it's entirely possible there are good reasons for all of these things. You could be a very good person for all any of us know.

But I'm telling you that these posts themselves objectively make you sound like a weirdo. Thats why everyone thinks you're one. I've read some of them to my girlfriend without any context of who you were and she's thought you sounded like a weirdo.

It isn't a domino effect or mass delusion. It's just weird posts.