comment by Igor la cloche de plongée et le papillion (U22200)
posted 1 day, 16 hours ago
I happened to read this thread before any comment was posted and as I was only after a break and on the road I wanted to see how it evolved and fair play to all the posters from all clubs I never expected so much compassion, just shows that despite there being a rare chance our paths will ever cross unless aligned to the same team shows that we can strip back some of the nastiness shown and reach out to another human and an anonymous person.

I'm not going to lie, when I read the OP, a shiver went up my spine and seriously didn't comment as I thought I might get grief for saying that reading between the lines this man was really at rock bottom.

Having followed the thread my worry has increased when Scunner has not acknowledged I believe to it.

So please if you are reading mate, you have our ear but please be a fella and let us know at least that you've been following it.

Please....🙏
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Nice post big man.

Another thread is asking for Scunner and admin emailed him.

admin

Working with vulnerable folk on benefit, could you keep us updated👍

And if you read this scunner, tomorrow can be better, big man👍😀

comment by thebluebellsarablue (U9292)
posted 2 minutes ago
admin

Working with vulnerable folk on benefit, could you keep us updated👍

And if you read this scunner, tomorrow can be better, big man👍😀
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Anything I post would probably need scunners blessing. But will try to keep folk in loop if I hear anything.

comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 13 seconds ago
comment by thebluebellsarablue (U9292)
posted 2 minutes ago
admin

Working with vulnerable folk on benefit, could you keep us updated👍

And if you read this scunner, tomorrow can be better, big man👍😀
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Anything I post would probably need scunners blessing. But will try to keep folk in loop if I hear anything.
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All you can do, admin🌝

We walk our own path🌻

Scunner.

If you are a praying man, talk to the big man.

Not trendy or cool now, but if you are spiritual or cannot see a way out, just pray.

Or talk about it to someone, pal.

comment by The Hayemaker (U14625)
posted 3 days ago
As mentioned, speaking to your GP is a great option. They can offer a medication route or a route where you speak to someone privately and try to talk things through.

Takes some balls to open up about these things, credit to you.

Exercising daily is a great boost as well.

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Thanks

comment by Igor la cloche de plongée et le papillion (U22200)
posted 1 day, 21 hours ago
I happened to read this thread before any comment was posted and as I was only after a break and on the road I wanted to see how it evolved and fair play to all the posters from all clubs I never expected so much compassion, just shows that despite there being a rare chance our paths will ever cross unless aligned to the same team shows that we can strip back some of the nastiness shown and reach out to another human and an anonymous person.

I'm not going to lie, when I read the OP, a shiver went up my spine and seriously didn't comment as I thought I might get grief for saying that reading between the lines this man was really at rock bottom.

Having followed the thread my worry has increased when Scunner has not acknowledged I believe to it.

So please if you are reading mate, you have our ear but please be a fella and let us know at least that you've been following it.

Please....🙏
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Nice post Igor it’s good to know that the JA community can come together and support posters in need of that support

Good bless the OP I hope you’re doing ok.

I cant bother my wife about it. She has her own pressures and worries.

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I’ve been in a very similar situation a couple of years ago. Best advice I can give is talk to your wife and also gp. Not ashamed to say I’m on anti depressants and am doing so much better now. Good luck.

comment by Pride of the North (U6803)
posted 8 minutes ago
I cant bother my wife about it. She has her own pressures and worries.

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I’ve been in a very similar situation a couple of years ago. Best advice I can give is talk to your wife and also gp. Not ashamed to say I’m on anti depressants and am doing so much better now. Good luck.
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Happy pills, GP advice and professional counselling are the way to go, partly.

Admin.

From a nutter on here for years, your life and heath is crucial and nothing else here matters, man

comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 1 hour, 5 minutes ago
comment by The Hayemaker (U14625)
posted 3 days ago
As mentioned, speaking to your GP is a great option. They can offer a medication route or a route where you speak to someone privately and try to talk things through.

Takes some balls to open up about these things, credit to you.

Exercising daily is a great boost as well.

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Thanks
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I’ll echo what he said about exercising, I think it’s hugely beneficial into the way you feel. even if small steps it can make a huge difference to your outlook.

Sometimes when I feel like everything is on top of me, it’s a great leveller, I come back and I feel like sone of the weight had been lifted off and I start seeing things with a new angle.

I think it’s all about how hard you go, a decent, get a sweat on workout or run, has better effects than if you take it easy. But it takes a little bit to get to that if you don’t already exercise (from not having fun since a kid, and smoked a lot, I gave up and started running, a month of small steps I was up to 5k, so takes a little while, but damn, it’s worth it)

It’s really good for general well being and mental health.

All the best man, I hope you feel better about things.

comment by Ole-Dirty-Baztard (U19119)
posted 40 minutes ago
comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 1 hour, 5 minutes ago
comment by The Hayemaker (U14625)
posted 3 days ago
As mentioned, speaking to your GP is a great option. They can offer a medication route or a route where you speak to someone privately and try to talk things through.

Takes some balls to open up about these things, credit to you.

Exercising daily is a great boost as well.

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Thanks
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I’ll echo what he said about exercising, I think it’s hugely beneficial into the way you feel. even if small steps it can make a huge difference to your outlook.

Sometimes when I feel like everything is on top of me, it’s a great leveller, I come back and I feel like sone of the weight had been lifted off and I start seeing things with a new angle.

I think it’s all about how hard you go, a decent, get a sweat on workout or run, has better effects than if you take it easy. But it takes a little bit to get to that if you don’t already exercise (from not having fun since a kid, and smoked a lot, I gave up and started running, a month of small steps I was up to 5k, so takes a little while, but damn, it’s worth it)

It’s really good for general well being and mental health.

All the best man, I hope you feel better about things.


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Thanks for that

Not much to add beyond what others have said. Definitely better to speak out than bottle things up, especially to your partner, knowing you have someone alongside you can make all the difference on the lowest days.

It's a shatty time altogether right now but keep on keeping on and things will definitely get better soon enough. Get outside and enjoy the gifts we have been given in the natural world, if nothing else it can be a great distraction.

Play sports- great for mental health as well. Time to spend time outside home and have natural life style like waking early , doing as laborous stuff as possible,spending time with family.

Scunner.

Hope you are feeling better and Mon Leeds tonight, mate.

Last push.

My teacher told me whenever u r subjected with any illness to tell that illness I am tougher and harder than u. U cannot do an iota of damage.

Well done leeds!

Welcome back scunner to EPL fun.

Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.

comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.
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I am really ashamed that i responded with language which could be deemed as homophobic which is not who i am.

I thought that my account would be suspended because of it so thought it was the best ting to do.

How do i apologise to the 2 users who i aimed it at?

comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 11 minutes ago
comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.
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I am really ashamed that i responded with language which could be deemed as homophobic which is not who i am.

I thought that my account would be suspended because of it so thought it was the best ting to do.

How do i apologise to the 2 users who i aimed it at?
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Honestly don't worry about it. Stuff like that happens all the time on here, folk sometimes make mistakes or misspeak in anger. It's the internet. As along as we aim to be nicer that's all we can do.

comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 11 minutes ago
comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.
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I am really ashamed that i responded with language which could be deemed as homophobic which is not who i am.

I thought that my account would be suspended because of it so thought it was the best ting to do.

How do i apologise to the 2 users who i aimed it at?
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Honestly don't worry about it. Stuff like that happens all the time on here, folk sometimes make mistakes or misspeak in anger. It's the internet. As along as we aim to be nicer that's all we can do.
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Thats really good of you to be so understanding.

I also worry what the other users on the Leeds board think.of me if they saw it.

I will take a break from it for a while.

Thanks and take care

Scunner, take break, recharge, come back when you're ready pal!

comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 1 hour, 43 minutes ago
comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 11 minutes ago
comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.
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I am really ashamed that i responded with language which could be deemed as homophobic which is not who i am.

I thought that my account would be suspended because of it so thought it was the best ting to do.

How do i apologise to the 2 users who i aimed it at?
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Honestly don't worry about it. Stuff like that happens all the time on here, folk sometimes make mistakes or misspeak in anger. It's the internet. As along as we aim to be nicer that's all we can do.
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I’ll second that, we’ve all done some daft things on here. I can think of a 900 post thread which I referred to fieldsofanfield as Faanny the whole time winding him up on a number of things, he gave it back too, and Winston turned up with a brand of pedantry that would put anything you think you’ve done to shame

And then it’s all forgotten about, a new day, everyone moves on. So never beat yourself up about things like that.

scunner man up lad, no bother, move on & on & on & on

comment by 1 Star Bandit (Scunner) (U22287)
posted 4 hours, 54 minutes ago
comment by Admin1 (U1)
posted 6 minutes ago
Scunner, you sure we can't keep your account open? Threads sometimes get out of hand, but it's no big issue, it happens.
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I am really ashamed that i responded with language which could be deemed as homophobic which is not who i am.

I thought that my account would be suspended because of it so thought it was the best ting to do.

How do i apologise to the 2 users who i aimed it at?
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We all do stuff that is not pc or nice in anger, depression, or comedy.

Don't beat yourself up.

The lgbt mob are the most sanctimonius and hostile crew you could meet, outside the Leeds Service Crew.

They hate feminists and women's groups mate....

You are either a hater or not.

I think you are not.